Breaking up with someone who u love is a painful experience...
it takes time skill and a lot of effort to get over a relationship as well as find and develop romantic connection with a new person.
However the following rules can help u cope with the break up faster
1. Stop reminiscing on all the wonderful and great things you have done together with your ex. thinking about all the special times is like opening a wound that just started healing so don't do it.
2. Stop believing that the person who you have lost is one of a kind and that u can't meet any other person like him/her again. the new person will be different alright but he/she will also be very special and unique in his/her own way.
3. Don't try staying friends. it will hurt u more. what u need is out of sight out of mind strategy. this is until u have gotten over the person. once u don't feel any more pains about the break up then u can go back for a nice friendship with no strings attached.
4. Don't perceive relationship as investment and consider it a waste of time after a break up. the relationship is never a waste of time just because it ended in a break up. as long as u loved that person, it is never a waste of time. there is no insurance against break up. just take it as life's experience.
5. There is nothing anybody can say or do that will make u get over a break up in a second. it takes time to get over a break up. it is a process but u will get over it cos everybody does. at the end of the day, you will get a better and stronger relationship where you will love and will be loved better than your previous relationship.
Thank you..
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