If a guy wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for your guy and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Never live your life for a guy before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the guy wasn't treating you as you deserve then HELL NO, you can’t "be friends because a friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along,cos then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think "it will get better." You’ll be mad at yourself months later for staying when things are not better.The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid guys who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant,Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.If something bothers you, speak up.Never let a guy know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.He is a guy, nothing more nothing less.Never let a guy define who you are.Never borrow someone else’s guy. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.A guy will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.All men are not dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street
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